November 11th. Its the day my mom gave me a second chance in life. The day I found the one person who loves me more than all the people in the universe. If it was not for her I probably would still be in Russia. There with no family to be with or give me love that I would need to survive the harsh world. If my mom did not adopt me fifteen years ago on the 11th I probably would not be the person I am today.
The early years. Life was hard. I do not remember anything from the three years in Russia. I guess its better that way. My mind probably blocked it out to not deal with the trauma. All I know is my birth mother could not take care of me and it was rough living with her. Little food, cold weather and neglect was not an easy experience for me. Then I ended up in an orphanage. Life in there probably was not much easier. It was better than being totally neglected with no one there for me. At least, I probably got some food and warmth. I am glad I am out of there now and part of a family that loves me.
The connection with my mom was instant when we met. It was fate. She was the mother I needed and longed for. My hero. Let me share something with you. So, all I knew what to say was momma poppa and baby when I first came to America. The orphanage probably taught us that because that is a complete family. That is considered a dream family. Not to me though. My mom is the best mom and father combined. I might not have a father but my mom to me is better and loves me more than any two parents could. She is the best single mom in the world.
I was given a second chance in life. The chance I would have not had if my mom did not adopt me. I was three and its hard for older children to get adopted. It just gets harder and harder as you get older too. I am thankful everyday for my mom. The one person who spent fifteen years giving her time, love and life to me. Thanks mom for everything. I am blessed because of you. If it was not for you I would not be where I am today. I would have probably never known what love and family was if you did not open up your life to me. I love you so much. xoxo.
ok now you made me cry :). I am so happy for both of you!
My dear Anna I think we are very lucky childs, we have someone who cares about us, give a kiss to your mother for me. You are a wonderful girl because you have a wonderful mother behind you!
:'( Your mother is an wonderful lady.
lol “an”
Thanks for the beautiful words–they mean so much to me. I love you and will love you for always.
wow! what a beautiful story- you are blessed, and thank you for sharing your story with us all. PS “happy birthday”!!!
Wow, what a beautiful post! You and your mom are so lucky to have one another – two special people who love and care about each other deeply. I am so happy for you both. Mother-daughter relationships are not always easy, but they are unique and wonderful and priceless, especially when there is a closeness and bond like the two of you share.
Happy 15th “anniversary”! 🙂
This post really touched my heart! Happy Birthday to this very special mom!
Hey I really love all of you your mom,grandma pupppies…simply you all are made for each other.Reading this article today(actually I started reading from jan 5th post,2010 )put me into tears for a long time…..seeing the love u and ur mom shared reminded me of my grandpa who I lost recently he was the only person who loved and liked me.. not even my mom,pop, or my sister even cares abt me …….Hey let god keep you and your mom like this sharing so much love for years to come…
may go bless you both.
I am so sorry for your lost. It is hard but it reminds us we must appreciate them when they are here. Its great you had a strong relationship with your grandpa. Your mom, pop and my sister are missing out. Stay strong.
So Sorry I read this late but I am very thankful for your Advice and care.thank u soo.. much.